1, interesting life, that it is full of a lot of uncertainty and open process. Among them, the pain of failure, there is the joy of success, there is adventure stimulation, deep thinking. Imagine life when we lack these, that it is worth pursuing and fighting it?

2, the trust between people is mutual, first reaching out to each other is necessarily more powerful party, the nature of trust that trust was reflected, as trust is not to yield.

3, exchanges and cooperation with others to learn empathy. First, there must be a broad-minded, when misunderstood others, do not argue for themselves and disgruntled, but to real action to prove himself; Secondly, there must be overall awareness, and more from the other point of view, the initiative sincerely accept criticism; once again have the courage of self-criticism; simultaneously, but also good communication open and published, to promote mutual understanding.

4, wants to win the love of others, is the need for you to go like others, wants to love someone, you have to see each other's advantages.

5, to let people know you and they have the same interests, is crucial to maintaining good relations. If you love to rant in conversation, it will be caused by hate; If you are talking about other topics of interest, to narrow the distance between each other much easier.

6, who are often surrounded by people with ulterior motives of some people, as compared with those humble people, between people pay more attention to the true feelings and care.

7, work for yourself, then you are alone; work for other people, then there will be tens of hundreds of people to give you help ---- cooperation on the basis of that win.

8, when a person dedicated to work, he'll forget forget attach himself too wrong. And, too mean to become accustomed to own their own business interests resistance.

9, remember when dealing with people on these two points: first, the others are important; Second, he is also very important ---- treat others with equality perspective calmly work in your favor.

10, to overcome a strong sense of self is the best way to others more carefully, more carefully each other's interest, desire and action, and so on, in order to temporarily forget.

11, criticism like a dog, he was afraid to see you, they will increasingly catch up with you, intimidate you. But if you go back and stand up to him, he would stop yelling, contrary wagged his tail, allowing you to touch ----- how to deal with criticism and insults, reflect a person's quality and philosophy of life.

12 Imagine ten most prestigious painters gathered around a round table to sit down together on a swing in the roundtable were apples sketch, what would happen? Each individual must be drawn out of the apple is different, because everyone see Apple's point of view is not the same ---- adamant that treat their own view of things is correct, take a closed attitude to others views, only the limitations of their own ---- therefore important to listen than to say.

13, when a man afraid of being looked down upon what you do when most like to brag, and then you want to brag this exaggerated way, to cause others to pay attention to you, and when you say the hype when often attracted ridicule.

14, when you want to brag, bragging think about how they hate someone, then you would not do such a stupid thing.

15, will have to do far more important than has been done wrong, the value of the past, is that it helps you in the future.

16, habitual resentment can lead to self-pity, and self-pity is the worst a person can develop emotional habits. When these habits become ingrained, not self-pity, they would not feel right. Psychological research has found that people only when they are in misery will feel good.

17, there are many causes of insecurity generated, not because of who we really lack the wisdom and ability, but because we use the wrong measure, always get their actual standards and ideals, the perfect pure "ideal self" comparison.

18, if a person is really worth to praise, they did not need to be arrogant, otherwise it is shallow it. Bragging, conceited, boastful arrogant, haughty, etc., which in fact is not successful or a complete failure of a cover-up mentality. In contrast, the performance of a humble confidence of success.

19, there should be a few of the most aware of the book, just like they should have some of the most intimate friend. It should develop a wide range of reading interests, the only way to expand their horizons and deepen their own life, while cultivating an open mind.

20, when sober yourself need to concentrate in order to read some books to read, and tired of having to take much more time to read the mind of easy reading.

21, the exchange of an apple, to get an apple; exchange an idea, to get an idea. Choose with your talent, personality different people, he can make up your flaws.

22, clever leader adept at knowing people, employers, and not to act on the basis of personal likes and dislikes. They are well versed in human nature, and clever use of the boot and so can a variety of different personalities on their proper position.