The so-called passive aggressive means deliberately conceal their own way to express anger mellowed , including the implementation of a series of actions on the target object , making each imperceptible one's own anger. The following sentence is typical of passive 10 attacks , can help you to hide psychological hostility early warning .

Are people always let your emotions ups and downs , like a roller coaster ?
Are you passionate someone yesterday , and today cold light ?
Friends and family want to talk about the heart , they always look the other way ?
Morey, assistant professor of psychology at the University of Vian Thain Whitson believes that if you answer the above three questions have a yes, then most likely you are to implement a passive aggressive person , or you have a passive attack tendencies. The so-called passive attacks , referring to intentionally conceal their way to tactfully express anger , including the implementation of a series of acts of the target object , making each imperceptible one's own anger. The following sentence is typical of passive 10 attacks , can help you to hidden hostility early warning .

1 . " I am very cool ! "
Passive attacker does not show hostility frankly , but denied feeling angry - while he insisted he was " calm " , while it angry .

2 . " Okay ." "Whatever ."
Full of unhappy exit argue , is the basic strategy of passive attacks . It is believed that the direct expression of anger is bad, so use two words to indirectly express displeasure , and cut off , and your direct emotional communication .

3 . " Faster ! Fast ! "
Verbal promise , but long overdue action. For example , you call the child to clean his room, he promised very cool : "Well, right now! " But no movement , probably in his strategy to deal with a passive attack you .

4 . " I do not know if you're going ah ."
Most people just do not like the delay task, and passive attacker delaying masters, with delays to torture someone , or get rid of a chore , but not directly rejected.

5 . " You are required to do everything perfect ."
In addition to the delay , the more complex passive attack strategy is to complete the task on time , but the quality is not accomplished what you want . For example, students pay up very sloppy job , husband to wife do not like steak meal delicious steaks , employees on an important project overruns ...... Under these circumstances, you criticize him, he will not only defend ourselves, also accuse you understand modifications or excessive pursuit of perfection.

6 . " I think you know ah ! "
The highest level of passive attack is deliberately "negligence ." In order to express anger, he deliberately did not tell you something , make you very tough . You asked him why , he said, to push for their own negligence to justify inaction , but behind it in schadenfreude.

7 . " Rest assured , I am honored to serve you ."
In the customer service department , often able to see the seemingly very concerned about your staff , or hear the sound of the super- polite customer service phone, to assure you that problems can be solved. On the surface, the attitude of customer service representatives are cooperative , but pay attention to the grievances behind the smile - a turn away , he took your application wastebasket or on your application heavily covered " inadmissible . "

8 . " To your ability to do this on the copies, has been very good ."
Passive aggressive with this Mianlicangzhen compliment to your deepest humiliation. There are similar "Do not be afraid , even to this age you can also orthodontic Well ," " In fact, there are a lot of men like Feimei ," you heard this " comfort " , and my heart is what it's like ?

9 . " I'm just kidding ."
Sarcasm is a common means of public expression of hostility , but after also beating around the bush is very decent. If you are not happy, passive attacker will be put on a miserable : "A joke , you're not , right ? "

10 . " Oh, no, there you angry now ? "
Passive attacker hit very good finish after the others, looking at each other like furious that he can remain calm , or disguised as surprised look. In fact , he was cheerfully watching you feeling out of control , in turn, said that you " overreacting ."